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Globalisation!

The debate on the advantages & disadvantages of globalisation has been going on for quite a number of years!Layman & experts alike are divided whether the process will result in more or less welfare for humanity!Even though there are obvious benefits

 

 

 

 

 

especially for comsumers there seems to be much attendant pain.We often hear of plant closures or massive jobcuts because of foreign competition.In addtion globalisation is associated with economic crisis,environmental change,erosion of sovereignty and cultural dilution.Moreover opinions over the issue of globalisation can be very intense and emotional as manifested by the street demonstrations that regularly accompany WTO & IMF meetings!Unfortunately the picture on the net benefit or loss as a conequence result of globalisation is still unclear!As a result policy-makers are not sure whether the process needs to be encouraged or curtailed! In fact the process of globalisation as an economic phenomenom is not something new!It has been going on for thousand of years!Moreover the process has generated tremendous  benefits for humanity!Through international trading activities,our forefathers had been able to enjoy various goods from different countries at the best price!The finance industry has been the factor that causes nations to becomhighly indebted and thereby severly exposed to external shocks!The resulting negative outcomes have often been wrongly attributed to the process of globalisation rather than to the powerful effects of the operations of the lending-for profit industry!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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lim guan eng/Frugal travel

I am pleasantly surprised to read about Guan Eng travelling economy class!This is certainly a move in the right direction!He must have seen and heard Lee Kuan Yew"s wife who had never even dyed her hair!These are leaders who shouldbe voted in to run the government…Frugality should be todays keyword at this time of world economic downturn!I hope his frugality will be examplery  to others who are still living extravagant lifestyle!SAdhu to Lim for his frugality!May you always be well & happy***

Talking about AM I DIVORCED? OR JUST SINGLE?

 

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AM I DIVORCED? OR JUST SINGLE?

By Sascha Rothchild is a freelance writer, television producer, and a contributor to public radio’s “This American Life.”

 

I’ve spent my entire adult life filling out forms. From doing grocery store club cards to driver’s license renewals to doctor office intakes, I’ve become a pro at completing those small spaces with my perfect block handwriting: Middle Initial-G, Hair Color-Red, Allergies-Penicillin. But it wasn’t until after my divorce that I noticed something very peculiar as I sat in a new doctor’s waiting room with a clipboard in my lap. The form asked for my marital status, and I had the option of checking off “single,” “married” or “divorced.”

 

Of course, I’m sure those options had been on many forms I’ve seen over the years, but as a newly divorced woman, suddenly they caught my eye. As I sat with my pen hovering over the little check boxes, I thought: How is that information pertinent to my check-up? Why should it matter if I’m divorced? I’m not married, so I’m single. Right? “Single” or “divorced” seemed redundant—kind of like deciding between “fruit” and “apple.” Was there even a difference between being divorced and just being single? For medical purposes, I didn’t think so.

 

So I checked the single box. Then I started asking questions about why a doctor would need to know the details on my marital status.

 

What difference does it make that I’m divorced?!

A nurse of 25 years told me that details like marriage and divorce can be important administratively because of billing, but more important, she said, it’s crucial to know a patient’s marital status because a good health-care provider treats “the whole person.” And according to her, a person who has been through a divorce might have different stress levels, different medical needs and a different daily routine than a single or married person.

 

Whatever. I wasn’t buying it. I was just the same post-divorce as I was pre-marriage. Working. Socializing. Red hair. Allergic to penicillin. These forms were clearly pointless and I refused to let the possible stigma of being a divorcée become part of my medical record. I was single and proud of it. A 30-year-old independent, competent, single girl out on the town.

 

At least, that’s how I felt at first. After my divorce, I started dating, and it was a whirlwind of fun. Cute boys. Nice restaurants. A reason to wear eyeliner. But within a few months, I started to feel a certain heaviness overwhelm me while I was out on dates. I couldn’t help but wonder: Am I ready to get to know someone new? Am I willing to care about someone again? Am I able to give love another chance? Soon I noticed that the heaviness sort of felt like hauling luggage through an airport. Apparently, I had baggage. And lots of it.

 

Owning up to my new outlook

I also noticed that, unlike in the past, the small dramas created by romance didn’t seem serious or exciting to me anymore and instead felt like a nuisance. When my single friends would go on and on about how they thought this one guy was cute but he lives too far away but this other guy is awesome but kind of short and blah blah blah, I wanted to yell at them and say, “Who cares about your second date with the short guy?!” “Who cares that the girl you have a crush on turned out to be a lesbian?!” “Who cares if your boyfriend of three months broke up with you for a waitress?!” Always followed by my refrain: “It’s not like you were married!”

 

The first year of my divorce I broke out in hives several times. I had mild panic attacks while doing simple things like grocery shopping. I either slept for 12 hours at a time or not at all. And I constantly seemed to be fighting off a cold.

 

After going to the doctor several times for one illness or another, the nurse asked me what was going on in my life to bring on such anxiety and stress. To my surprise, I blurted out, “I just got divorced!” And then it hit me. They do need to know this, so they can treat the whole person. I may have denied it, but my so-called whole person was being affected by my divorce. Because getting a divorce, even an amicable and quick one, is still exhausting, painful and spirit-crushing.

 

Making peace with my past

Unlike my single pals, I stood in front of my friends and family and announced that I would bind myself to my husband forever… then that relationship died. And although unmarried couples can love each other just as much as married couples, there is an added element of despair when you have to legally separate from your spouse. Putting your wedding ring in a box, throwing it down a well, or taking it to a pawnshop: It’s a different feeling from throwing out your ex-boyfriend’s jacket.

 

Divorced people have gone through the excitement of a wedding. The elation of planning a future with someone they love. And then the demise of that dream. There’s a lot to learn from that experience, but before you can learn anything at all, you have to acknowledge it that has, indeed, changed you. For better or for worse, as they say.

 

The last time I went to the doctor, I asked the nurse for a new form. And this time, I checked the box that said “divorced.” That was six months ago. I’m feeling a lot healthier these days.

Talking about Quotations on Sex

 

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Quotations on Sex

 

It is with our passions, as it is with fire and water, they are good servants but bad masters.

Aesop (620 BC – 560 BC)

Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It’s much sexier than any body part.

Aimee Mullins, Oprah Magazine, May 2004

 

The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.

Alfred Lord Tennyson (1809 – 1892)

 

Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it.

Anonymous, O Magazine, The Shy Girl’s Guide to Sex, February 2003

 

Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.

Betty Friedan (1921 – 2006)

 

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.

Billy Crystal (1947 – )

 

Mortal lovers must not try to remain at the first step; for lasting passion is the dream of a harlot and from it we wake in despair.

C. S. Lewis (1898 – 1963), ‘The Pilgrim’s Regress’

 

It’s just human. We all have the jungle inside of us. We all have wants and needs and desires, strange as they may seem. If you stop to think about it, we’re all pretty creative, cooking up all these fantasies. it’s like a kind of poetry.

Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider, Northern Exposure, Mister Sandman, 1994

 

I’m too shy to express my sexual needs except over the phone to people I don’t know.

Garry Shandling (1949 – )

 

I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty.

George Burns (1896 – 1996)

 

Sexually,we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there’s a cat out there exactly the same as me?

Jeff Melvoin, Northern Exposure, Altered Egos, 1993

 

A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she’s a tramp.

Joan Rivers (1935 – )

 

In America sex is an obsession, in other parts of the world it is a fact.

Marlene Dietrich (1901 – 1992)

 

Does it really matter what these affectionate people do– so long as they don’t do it in the streets and frighten the horses!

Mrs. Patrick Campbell

 

One thing I’ve learned in all these years is not to make love when you really don’t feel it; there’s probably nothing worse you can do to yourself than that.

Norman Mailer (1923 – )

 

Life is a sexually transmitted disease.

R. D. Laing

 

I know love and lust don’t always keep the same company.

Stephenie Meyer, Twilight, 2005

 

But seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

Waiter Rant, Waiter Rant weblog, 11-29-05

 

I know nothing about sex because I was always married.

Zsa Zsa Gabor (1919 – )

Gripped in election fever!

Once again malaysians are going to the polls to elect anew government!It is ironic to have agovernment under tun mahathir for over 20 plus years succeeded by Abdullah and then finally about to be toppled by Mahathir himself!Mahathir is quite a gentlemen when he openly admitted that he was cruel to Annuar ibrahim!But i cant imagine he asking the police to beat Annuar up until Annuar got bluish eyes!No doubt Annuar may be abit gay or bisex but that doesnt make him any less manly than others!He got his normal family to look after!Who doesnt flirt once in a while!Even Mahadthir also got many wives!But the biggest joke of all was the drama that unfolded when annuar was arrested!Even the mattress that was used for telecasted live if i remember correctly!I think it is high time for Keadilan to come forward and perform some justice!Two wrongs may not bring one right but at least thats how the world is~is really time for some justice!I am against al forms of discrimination!though i am PBS from its inception but i doubt that any politician in sabah iw worth of support or respect for that matter!Jumping frogs!Though i am not Keadilan member but i have full sympathy for annuar &his family!May Allah bless them now!Looking fforward to a new beginning and cycle of the EArth RAT!May al malysians be well &happy!Sadhu3!

Talking about China plans ‘city’ celebrating traditional culture – Life Style – MSN Malaysia News – News

 

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China plans ‘city’ celebrating traditional culture – Life Style – MSN Malaysia News – News

Talking about Famed geneticist creating life form that turns CO2 to fuel – Top Stories – MSN Malaysia News – News

 

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Famed geneticist creating life form that turns CO2 to fuel – Top Stories – MSN Malaysia News – News

Talking about No One ~ Alicia Keys

 

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No One ~ Alicia Keys

"No One"

~ Alicia Keys

I just want you close
Where you can stay forever
You can be sure
That it will only get better

You and me together
Through the days and nights
I don’t worry ’cause
Everything’s going to be alright
People keep talking they can say what they like
But all i know is everything’s going to be alright

No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I’m feeling
No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I feel for you, you, you
Can get in the way of what I feel for you

When the rain is pouring down
And my heart is hurting
You will always be around
This I know for certain

You and me together
Through the days and nights
I don’t worry ’cause
Everything’s going to be alright
People keep talking they can say what they like
But all i know is everything’s going to be alright

No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I’m feeling
No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I feel for you, you, you
Can get in the way of what I feel

I know some people search the world
To find something like what we have
I know people will try try to divide something so real
So till the end of time I’m telling you there ain’t no one

No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I’m feeling
No one, no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I feel for you, you, you
Can get in the way of what I feel for you

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